I tend to lie on my back, relax and start to slowly finger my vagina with my my legs bent and wide apart. When I have a bit of cum on my fingers I rub my clit slowly, then when I get used to the feeling I rub it vigorously – trust me, it will make you moan with pleasure!!! but I find it even more orgasmic and longer lasting if you rub your clit dry. It is just WOW!!!!!