Sex parties are extremely fun. You get to meet like-minded people and have all the fun you want without feeling judged or uncomfortable.
Just as you have your regular checklist of things you shouldn’t forget when going out – keys, wallet, and phone, you should also have a list of things to bring to a swinger party. Whether they are things to feel more comfortable during the event or something you want to try out with multiple people, you can take so many things to a swinger party.
However, everyone has their kink and things they consider okay to bring to a swinger party. So, if you weren’t quite sure if it was okay to bring your vibrator, lube, pegging strap-ons, or dildo, stick with us a bit. Today’s article will cover a few things that are okay to bring to a swinger party.
Condoms
Safety comes before everything else, so when you attend a swinger party, the first thing you will need is a pack of condoms. You will be interacting sexually with multiple people you see for the first time, and you can never know their sexual health or background, so it’s essential to protect yourself by using a condom.
Whether it’s protection from STIs or pregnancy, condoms should be the first thing you pack in your bag before heading out to a swinger party. Organizers usually provide condoms and lube at parties, but it never hurts to bring your own for backup, just in case they run out. Get both latex and non-latex condoms, as many party goers will have oil lube that can break down latex condoms, which puts you at risk of STIs and pregnancy.
Toys
When it comes to toys at swinger parties, there are some good manners you can practice. First and foremost, ask for consent before using a toy on another person, as there are different types of swingers, and not everyone is open to using sex toys. Don’t use other people’s toys without their permission, and clean every toy and yourself after each use. It’s also extremely important to use condoms with all toys you use and change them if you’re swapping partners.
There is a variety of toys you can bring to swinger parties for an extra bit of fun. The most popular sex toys for swinger parties are non-penetrative submission toys like gags, vibrating necklaces, blindfolds, collar and leash sets, handcuffs, paddles, and bondage ropes. You can also bring penetrative sex toys like dildos, prostate massagers, and anal plugs, but make sure to use them yourself or ask if your current sexual partner wants to use them before actually doing it. Some people like to bring oils for sexual massages, nipple clamps, a penis ring, or a vibrating wand for extra stimulation.
Lube
If you’re planning to interact with multiple sex toys, participate in anal sex, have sensitive skin, or experience dryness, lube is a must to make everything more comfortable. Considering everything can drag on for hours, things can get dry down there, so it will be handy to have it within reach whenever needed.
You can even bring your favorite lube if you want to use it exclusively. However, be careful not to use silicone lubricant on silicone toys or oil lubricants with condoms or latex toys, as the friction of the materials can damage the toy or condom, which is something you want to avoid.
Cleaning supplies
After everything ends, you need to have something to clean yourself up. Hygiene is paramount, so you have to keep yourself clean and disinfect your body after having sex. You can use a shower cloth to clean your body, wash your hands with soap to remove any body fluids or lube or wipe yourself with intimate antibacterial wipes.
Having a toy cleaner is also essential for proper hygiene. You will likely change partners throughout the party, so if you’re using sex toys, it’s vital to clean them after each use.
Extras
Some other things you can bring to swinger parties are cough drops, body markers, and a pouch or a case for storing your sex toys. The cough drops or candies will help your body produce more saliva, allowing you to give better blow jobs. This is especially helpful for newbies and those that tend to get shy, as nerves can make your mouth dry. Opt for sugar-free candies, as if the sugar comes in contact with the vagina of your partner, it can cause a yeast infection.
Another fun thing to bring is body markers. You can use them to paint people’s bodies, write dirty words on them, send secret messages, or write down your number.
Finally, having a pouch or case to keep your toys in will ensure you can carry all your toys and use them with different partners without forgetting or losing any of them along the way.
Final thoughts
Swinger parties can be incredible or downright terrifying, depending on your sexual interests. However, a significant part of your experience depends on your mindset and how you feel about the whole event. While there are many reasons to join the swinger lifestyle, the first thing you should bring to a sex party is a good mood. The rest will come on its own.