How to use a Butt Plug
Butt plugs are darlings for those who know how to use them. They ramp up your sexual experience for both male and female users.
For male users, a butt plug can be a great way to stimulate your prostate, washing you with pleasure. On the female side of the fence, a butt plug can add pressure on the vaginal wall, thereby enhancing pleasure and creating a sense of “fullness” without the awkwardness or pain of a second penis.
Let us take you through what you need to know to use a butt plug like a pro.
What is a Butt Plug?
A butt plug is precisely how it reads. Its job is to plug your butt! Let us say it is the same way you’d plug your iPhone charger on the wall, only in this instance, it makes you feel intense pleasure.
Using a butt plug with lube is an excellent way to relax the rectum for some anal play. The innovative shape of the butt plug varies with the type of design.
For example, the remote control butt plug designs obtainable from the SVAKOM sex toy collection gradually widens towards the middle before narrowing down to a slim neck towards the base.
The essence of this is for the rectum to accommodate the butt plug easily. Also, a pull cord, ring, or flared bottom (added to the design) prevents the butt plug from disappearing down your butt hole.
Best way to use a butt plug? Follow these tips:
Lots of Lube
The anus is quite unlike the vagina in that it does not lubricate itself. You must be ready to apply a lot of lube for safety and comfort.
If you intend to have a lengthy anal play, say with your remote control butt plug, you must top off the lube regularly like you top off your fuel tank while on a long trip.
Lubrication is not only useful for a heightened sexual experience, but it also makes sex safer. This is because it decreases the chances of injury, reducing the likelihood of a tear in the anus, and ultimately preventing soreness.
If you prefer silicone plugs, make sure to pair it with a water-based lubricant. Silicone lube is not the best choice with a silicone butt plug because of the lousy reaction. Therefore, avoid pairing them together at all costs.
Easy Does It!
As with any new activity, be it the outdoors or an intimate time inside the comfort of your home, you need not go the whole nine yards on your first try.
It makes sense to start slowly (when inserting your butt plug) and taking your time to get used to things. Don’t rush things up. You have got time, haven’t you?
Pleasure of Pressure
While a butt plug enhances the vagina’s pleasure due to the added pressure, that same pressure makes it more fun for the penetrating partner.
A butt plug reduces the space in the pelvis, thus leading to a more snug or tighter vagina. It is irrelevant your partner has a penis or stimulating you with a finger; they are sure to notice the difference.
Know what you are going in for
The generality of remote control butt plugs is mainly shaped to stimulate the prostate providing maximum pleasure. If you intend to plug a man, consider going for the curved prostate massager designed to stimulate the P-spot.
Most people think they know it all, ignoring to carry out proper research on butt plugs before buying. Inevitably, this leads to accidents.
Indeed, funny stories abound on the Internet of individuals inserting everyday household items into their rectum but running into trouble when retrieving the said item from the butt.
Never forget the butt plug has to be made out of a non-porous material to be adequately washed off while ensuring safety from infections. This is typical of what you get from top brands like SVAKOM sex toys.
Clean up Pre-Play and Post-Play
Even for those who enjoy getting down and dirty, you do not want to get…that dirty. To the point: you need not be afraid the butt plug will come in contact with fecal matter because solid waste is stored in the upper bowel. That being said, it is good advice to clean up properly before you get down to business.
Arousal is Essential
Apart from lube, arousal is a crucial ingredient that helps the body to relax and get prepared. You do not start from kissing to penetration, and the same goes for butt play. By the way, check out this guide about the best anal toys for men on Maxiwand.
Put effort into getting your foreplay sessions right. This sets the right emotional atmosphere for the adventure. Subsequently, when it is time to insert the butt plug, make sure to go even slower.
There is no best position to insert the butt plug, as it is all down to personal preference. Insert it like a tampon if you are practicing some self-love. Doggy style or missionary works well with a partner in hand.
Conclusively, always remember to start with the smallest butt plugs as a beginner before progressing into something larger in size once you are more comfortable.