There is a weird misconception that not all women can squirt.
But most of them never even tried!
So don’t believe these studies that say that only 10-20% of women are able to squirt, most of these studies only survey a limited amount of women like 100, and are not a good representation…
Here are some tips on how to make a girl squirt below:
1. Have fun and don’t stress!
The goal is to have fun here, if no one squirts during the session you will still have amazing sex!
Experiment and have fun, no pressure!
You might not be able to squirt the first time around, but you will still feel amazing while you experiment and discover your body. Patience pays off trust me!
2. Use some lubricant
Squirting requires stimulation that is a bit faster and stronger than the usual motion that you use during regular sex. So I recommend that you use a lot of lube to avoid irritation.
You can use any types of lubricant, but please stay away from those generic ones at the pharmacy like KY Jelly…. it only lubricates for a few minutes before feeling weird and dry… I recommend visiting your local adult shop to find high-quality lubricants that can help you feel comfortable when trying to squirt.
I personally love the lubricant called Gun Oil. It’s amazing and feels slippery forever! But please note that this is a silicone-based lubricant, and it’s not for everyone. Many people prefer to use water-based lubricants since they are probably better for your body… Anyhow, anything used in moderation can’t harm your body too much.
3. Stimulate the G-spot area.
For those who don’t know yet, the G-spot area is the area inside the vagina that feels a bit rougher than the other parts inside.
Stimulating the G-spot is essential for squirting.
The best way to do this is with 2 fingers. Insert them inside the vagina and curl them a lot. And start rubbing the area. you can start by rubbing the area gently, but it’s recommended to rub quite hard and fast if you want to achieve squirting.
4. Buy some sex toys.
While squirting can happen during regular intercourse, it is easier to achieve using fingers or sex toys.
I recommend visiting your local sex shop and shopping for sex toys and vibrators. I do recommend the legendary Hitachi Magic Wand as it is more powerful than other vibrators, so the combination of inserting your fingers in the vagina while using such a powerful vibrator on your clitoris can definitely help you squirt!
Many women quite like the Womanizer vibrator as well, as it provides a suction effect for the clitoris, very similar to what it would feel to have your partner suck on it.
I found a good blog post about the best sex toys for squirting on Buzzfeed.
5. Be open to getting messy.
Squirting is super sexy and can also get messy, so to not ruin the mood I wouldn’t recommend trying to squirt on your favorite couch haha…
Prepare the area beforehand, maybe put a towel on the ground on your bed if you feel like you don’t want to splash on those expensive Egyptian cotton bed sheets…
The bottom line.
Forget the urban legend that not all women can squirt. That’s not true at all!
Go ahead and try squirting for yourself, it might take a few times before you achieve it, and it will require a bit of experimentation when it comes to positioning your body or what type of sex toys do you prefer, but it’ll be worth it!
For other tips about masturbation and sexuality, please visit the sex tutorials section of this website.