Now and again I masturbate & really enjoy my own touch & using a few of my clitoris vibrators, I get really wet and start to quiver through sheer enjoyment, But I have never yet managed to make myself orgasm, I get so close but sadly no orgasm, When I was with my ex hubby I orgasmed when he touched my clitoris. Any suggestions for me?
Just let go and enjoy it without expectation.
When you masterbate theres several things you can try. Start with what turns you on during sex. Use your imagination. Then sit back and enjoy. Think about this before you masterbate do you consider masterbation wrong that could be the problem could mental. Hope this help and you find enjoyment.
Find a male friend that can share mutual masturbating with you…. Watching how you turn him on should get you there… If not… masturbate to his play…
Then if not… make love and try again later…
What’s to loose?
Worked for us!