Hey ladies. So I am dating this guy who would like to make me squirt. I’ve only done it once before and it wasn’t a lot. Just a little bit while my ex was fingering me and it ran own his arm, it felt amazing. I was mortified. I’ve seen what it looks like in porn and I’m so afraid that if I do it that’s what is going to happen. And id be so embarrassed. I don’t wanna do that all over my guy and the bedroom and the sheets. He’s gotten me to the point where I feel that urge right before it happens but I hold back every time. I’m afraid to do it. Should I be afraid? Should I just do it? Is it weird to feel embarrassed about it? If I did decide to let myself any advice as to how to let it happen? I always get to the urge but I hold it back and I don’t know how I would let it go. Ugh. >.<
There is that and my boob issue. I have really small boobs and I almost never take off my bra because I am very self conscious. But when I do anytime he tries to touch or lick and suck on them I flinch and shake and get all nervous. I hate that I have small boobs. I feel unattractive and I don't feel sexy. I feel bad that I can't be comfortable with my guy. Any advice as to how to get over my fear of being topless? I want my guy to feel like my body is his play ground and that he can do whatever he wants. Especially considering I'm really into being dominated and I want him to be able to tie me up when I'm completely naked and use me as his little sex toy. But with the way I feel about my boobs we cant.
PLEASE HELP!
Before squirt, talk to your partner about it, if he feels free about it, and if he likes it, you will enjoy… I love to squirt and my partner likes it… It’s just crazy feeling, belive me, you want to try it, and ofcorse, goodluck 🙂
My girlfriend feels the same way except she hasn’t reached orgasm yet. What I have to do as the guy is to reassure her that she is beautiful, no matter what size she is. And I’m fully honest because she’s absolutely stunning even when she’s 157cm tall and doesn’t fit her bra. Every girl is different and your guy should reassure you.
He reassures me ALL THE TIME. But I just cant seem to find myself beautiful with our a bra on… I love boobs, I think they are one of the most beautiful parts of a woman’s body and the fact that I don’t have them makes me feel less feminine and less sexy as a woman. :/ What are your opinions on boob jobs?
*My bra
not our
I am a breast man. Not all breast men feel the way I do, but I like breasts of all sizes. I love playing with small boobs. Your guy wouldn’t be in bed with you if he didn’t like your breasts as they are.
The size of your boobs isn’t what makes them sexy, it is how you feel about them. Take off your bra and see how he reacts. If he is touching and kissing them … HE LIKES THEM!
Girl, first of all, your breasts are awesome. I have big ones and I think small ones are super sexy. Take that bra off and let him see. Don’t hide them it’s not fair! He wants to see all of you. Secondly, before you start to get to the point of squirting, tell that man ahead of time to bring an extra thirsty towel to bed and tell him you are nervous about it. Once he reassures you (and I am sure he will) then when you feel that squirt building up you let it fly. It is NOT urine, Some men (like mine) get so super proud of themselves by their ability to make their women squirt. Some men take even more pride by the quantity of the squirt. My husband does, and it can be a bed soaking but AMAZING experience for us. I can’t even begin to tell you, my husband once told me he wanted to do me in an empty bathtub to see how full of my juices he could make it. Trust me, with some men…it’s the most exciting thing they will ever experience, and you should just go with it. You will enjoy it once you get comfortable with your own sexy self!
don’t feel bad about squirting, it is completely natural
but you should talk to him about it and just release the tension that you’re having about it in your body and just let your body do what it is going to do.