I have this pillow-like massager thing that can be placed on the back of a chair. It vibrates when you turn it on, so I like to drape it over the arm of the big chair in my living room and straddle it. It works best if I’m naked from the waist down. I spread my legs wide and push my hips against the massager so that it hits my clit just right. Then I slowly move from side to side, in a circle, whatever feels good. It takes a little while, but when I finally cum, it’s great