I have been masturbating for about 3 years now and I loooove the way it feels but I can’t seem to reach a good orgasm! 🙁 I have tried everything I’ve heard of, porn,shower head, toothbrush,dildo everything have! I don’t have any official sex toys cause they are not avilable where I am. Any tips at all on how to get an orgasm? My puss is dying to explode but I get distracted!!! I’m ADD so I get distracted easily and if I don’t cum faster I don’t think I will ever get there…. D: Any tips at all???
first of all, make sure you are either alone, or nobody can hear you (it helps to have a shirt or a pair of panties to put in ur mouth if things get loud). prepare your bed (lay a towel if u make a mess) and your nightstand (clean it and make sure it has the essentials like lube, tissues, mirror, cell phone). you can take a long, hot shower and get in the mood using the hot water to stimulate ur clit. never think about having an orgasm. lie on ur bed and turn off the lights, only leaving a lamp on or candles. you can listen to music with ur cell (if its to relax u try something like “I touch myself” if you get REALLY loud something like “Fits like a glove” by Kiss or “Next go round”, “Animals”, “S.E.X” by Nickelback). start touching ur breasts, stomach and inner thighs. put some lube on ur hands or put ur fingers in ur mouth to make them wet(u should do it every time u feel not wet enough, as many as it takes). start touching, rubbing even pinching ur lips. place ur mirror between ur legs and open your vaginal lips with ur left hand. make sure the pointer and the middle finger of ur right hand are very moist and start rubbing ur clit up and down very fast, but not using much strength. you will start to feel hot inside and very bothered; start rubbing ur clit in circles hard (speed is up 2 u). it helps to imagine someone sucking and licking ur clit or someone watching and/or talking dirty to you. another tip is watching the whole process by using the mirror.
hope u find this helpful
Good advice alicejet.
thanks
that is great advice
this is another “trick”;
you rub ur clit in slow, soft circles. at first u barely feel it but then u start gettin hot. u continue doin it untill ur really hot. then you start rubbing ur clit up and down real fast and hard but with the tip of your finger (DO NOT i repeat DO NOT do this if your fingernails are long). when i do it it drives me c-r-a-z-y!!! i just learned how to be quiet when i cum but this… i had to take of my tshirt and shove it in my mouth!