I’m a long time reader and have recently joined as I am finally 18. Reading all your posts have got me really wet but I have never been able to reach orgasm. My boyfriends haven’t been concerned about my pleasure before and the porn i have looked at hasn’t helped. I just don’t know what to do I really want to orgasm but just can’t get there. Can any of lovely ladies tell me what I’m doing wrong and help me?
I was the same and even though I masturbated often I never got to orgasm and would just kinda get frustrated and give up after a while 🙁 Reading this site gets me riled up and I do like to look at porn and I know I am interested! But like you, I hadn’t been with someone who thought about want I want…. However, since I had an online relationship with someone for a couple of months and the “safety” of the internet got us both breaking down all sorts of barriers (especially in my mind!) while we chatted I’ve since figured out how I work 😉
do you masturbate honey? that’s the best way to learn what you like and what you dont like. when i started masturbating at around 10/11 it would feel good but nothing really happened until i was about 13. i was rubbing my clit in little circles and although it took some time i eventually climaxed. the key is to relax babe, you might be concentrating too much on wanting to orgasm that you’re not relaxed enough to let it happen. just lie back, close your eyes and relax. it might take some time to begin with, but take your time and you’ll get there! let me know how you get on 🙂
hey sweetie; recently i tryed a new position for clitoral masterbation; usually im on my back with my legs spread but this time I knelt down and rested just my head on y pillow so my ass was in the air, than used one hand to spread my labia as much as i could without it hurting then rubbe my clit in circles; BIGGEST O i’ve ever had i even started humping at the air without realizing it try it IT WORKS. I find if I tense up my tummy I O faster than normal.
I’m Finally 18!! Hooray! I want to know one thing…. What are good websites for picturees of wet pussys and horney teens. I like anything from big tits to hairy c*nts and have resently climaxed over photos like theese :p xx
The newest technique I have used is amazing!
Take a washcloth and run it under hot water,
Squeeze it out and wrap it in saran wrap.
Put a little lube on it if you have some. This
Is the best thing I have found to hump, I orgasm
In a min flat.
okay ladies, listen up..
so far this has been the best way to masturbate and has given me the biggest orgasm (even compared to sex).
what i do, is i get on my knees and place whatever i want to use (straightener wrapped with glad wrap, dildo, etc.) between my feet. this allows me to bounce up and down on it while having my hands free to use my vibrator (or anything that vibrates) on my clit. it also gives me the perfect angle to hit my g-spot.
it’s worth a try 🙂
I have the same problem I can’t get an orgasime I get the sansation but when I’m about too I don’t know what happends I need help too I don’t know what to do anymore
I didn’t get my first orgasm until I was 20 and I didn’t intentionally squirt until I was 23. First one needs to explore ones body. Find out what touching you like best and go on an adventure with no goal in mind. I had help from a wonderful book “Female ejaculation and the G spot” which helped me heal and gave me the gift of self pleasure. The website has a lot of great info, but i loved reading the book (i put a different cover on it and read it in public :P). After years of practicing and finding myself, i am having the best sex of my life with the best man in the world, and i know exactly how my body works.
Each persons body is different, draw your O-map and create new trails.
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I always first rub my clit slowly with a “come here” move of my finger (sounds weird, works really) until I get wet enough. Then I start rubbing my clit really fast up and down til I cum.
Same here. I masturbate but I can’t cum 🙁