My first time masturbating 21

The first time I masturbated I was 12 years old. I was watching a YouTube video, and during a lesbian sex scene (naughty child, I know…) I felt a weird sort of pressure deep inside me. I couldn’t tell what it was or where it was coming from. Then I saw one of the girls on the video touch the other one between the legs. The girl who got touched jerked and said something along the lines of “that felt great…”. Then it hit me: pleasure! I was feeling pleasure! I reversed the video to the beginning of the scene (which started out with what I would later find out was called masturbation) and decided to try doing what the first girl did to herself. I stripped down and sat on the edge of my bed. Experimentally, I poked and prodded at different areas between my legs, trying to figure out what was making the girls in the video feel so good. When I finally found what I soon learned was called a clit, the feeling in my stomach swelled. I laid back on the bed and spread my legs out, enjoying the feeling. When I felt it begin to grow, becoming like a strange tension inside of me, I got scared and stopped. I thought the feeling I had begun to experience was wrong. However, the next day my curiosity won out and I tried again. It came faster that time, and when the feeling did come I didn’t stop, even though every cell in my body seemed to be screaming in protest. When the full force of my later-discovered orgasm hit me, my body jerked around a few times before coming to rest on the sheets. Everything in me that had been screaming was now relaxed, and I felt strangely better than I had before the session. I’ve done it almost every day ever since then, and I’ve never been more relaxed than I am after a session.

 

What was your first experience? Was it anything like mine? Was it random or strange? Let me know in the comments 🙂

21 thoughts on “My first time masturbating

  1. Reply Charlotte Sep 24,2012 10:10 am

    My experience was quite similar. I first masturbated aged 13, this was in 1986, there was no internet, my sex education at home was zero and very little in school. My only sources of knowledge were the school playground and books. I used to borrow library books that no one else knew I had. I remember being 13, and getting horny, and having the idea that I could simulate sex myself. This was around the time I got a library book explaining about masturbation, orgasm and the clitoris. I remember it had close up pictures of vulvas naming the parts, so of course, I got a mirror and looked at my own vulva. So back to my first time, I laid back in bed and opened my legs, experimented with touching, found my clit and rubbed hard and climaxed. Obviously thought the feelings it gave me were beautiful, but I did feel guilt. That didn’t stop me, and started doing it regularly. I remember a while after, not being sure if the feeling I was feeling was an orgasm, all I knew was that I rubbed my clit and had a big rush of feelings, and then I couldn’t rub it anymore. Then I found the page about sex in a medical encyclopaedia. It said that an orgasm was where the vagina contracts every 0.8 seconds, so that night I put my fingers inside my vagina, felt the contractions as I masturbated, and knew for sure that I was climaxing. Now I am 39, still single and have struggled to meet a man over the years, so have relied on my own hand for my relief. Of course, I have, since then, found many variations that I’ve enjoyed. Different positions, I like being on all 4’s leaning forward on lots of pillows and rubbing my clit. I sometimes put my vibrator in and rub my clit, I put the tip of my vibrator on my clit on a slow setting, or a medium setting which gets me off so quick! I also lay on my front in bed, and put the tip of my vibe on my clit. I’ve tried so hard over the years to have a g spot orgasm, but I just can’t, I need my clit stimulated. I’d also like to have a multiple orgasm, but can’t do that either – I’ll keep trying! That moment immediately before orgasm, I’m so desperate for a man to be fucking me hard, I’m so tired of having to do it myself all the time. I usually do it anything from 2 to 6 times a week, depending on how horny I am. Often when I masturbate, I either read the posts on Clitical, or watch women masturbate online. Thanks for this opportunity to talk about this personal subject, it’s very liberating!

  2. Reply xxx Sep 30,2012 8:48 pm

    🙂 I was smiling while reading these posts because when I think back to my first time, I must’ve been around 12 too, I really didn’t know what I was doing, I had no idea that it was going to result in this pressure cooker busting feeling, but it felt good, and I didn’t even touch myself, I only held my legs together so tight and I was on all fours. I just rocked my hips back n forth and side to side with my pyjama’s on and the feeling just built up and built up till all of a sudden, I was breathing so hard and my body jerked a bit too! I thought omg, what have I done…I became so scared and something in my head told me it was wrong because it felt so good, the guilt and fear I felt was immense and yet, I could tell I was going to try it again. I did, and each time I felt a dirty but I was hooked. Now 45, I still do it nearly every day and what can I say, there is still guilt there, but, I love it! My fav way to do it is to watch girly porn or then in the shower…I’m still hooked and am quite bi curious! N e 1 interested???

  3. Reply Jillian Davidson Oct 3,2012 6:53 am

    Masturbation for me is so important it’s beautiful and I couldn’t have sex without it. It’s helped me to be confident in showing my partner how I need to be pleasured. It’s given me a great sense of my own body and my orgasms when masturbating are mind blowing…………… My climax is amazing. I take so much time over masturbating and I masturbate over my partner a lot. He gets so turned on by my orgasm, my nipples are sensitive and I can orgasm just walking around and brushing up against him. Masturbating is a must for every person to be in tune with yourself and sexual confidence. Good luck

  4. Reply C.P. Oct 28,2012 12:16 pm

    I experienced masturbation at age 13. Now, when I get horny, I try to fantasize about almost every celebrity imaginable (actress, female athlete, female singer or a female member of a mixed band, etc).

  5. Reply amy Dec 25,2012 1:28 pm

    I found it when I came across my dads secret stash of vids and I would watch the man ride the women and I had a really big clown doll and so I rode it and it felt good….mmmm

  6. Reply curvy-kitty Dec 26,2012 4:02 pm

    Mmm amy, sounds sexy. 😉 I used to do that with my big teddy bear.

    xxx – 34 here and I TOTALLY get what you’re saying. I want to be with a woman so bad! I would be open to exchanging naughty messages if you like. Send me a message if you want to at my user name curvy-kitty at hotmail dot com. Would LOVE LOVE LOVE to have a sexy woman to talk to.

    • Reply Sashi Apr 20,2016 3:35 am

      Hello I have been reading these masturbation stories at work and am so horny. I had my first masturbation experience when I was only 4. I am now 35 and still masturbate almost every day, some days a few times. I am straight but had some experiences with girls in my early 20’s and would love to do it again or chat bout it.

  7. Reply Sydney Jan 5,2013 11:13 pm

    I was also 12 when I first masturbated, and it was an accident. I don’t remember what I was doing, but it was something that made me horny. I just started rubbing myself and it felt really good. I didn’t go much farther than that at that time. The next day, I was in my kitchen. I had to idea to kid of hump the corner of the dining table. It felt so much better than just rubbing myself. When I knew I was alone, I looked some stuff up on the Internet and found out it was called masturbation and what a clit was. That night, I pulled my panties down in bed and found my clit. That was the first time I had an orgasm and now I masturbate a lot. My favorite is lying underneath the bathtub faucet with my legs up the wall and letting the water hit my clit

  8. Reply Harmonia Jan 7,2013 4:50 am

    Believe it or not, after hearing about the bathtub thing, I accidentely discovered that when i was around the age of 8!I didn’t know what it was, but it felt so good. I did it like 4 times and stopped after that. So that was my first time, but on accident.

  9. Reply zoltan Jul 1,2013 2:12 pm

    im a guy. i masturbated first when i was 8. i had my first orgasm then, i was a little bit bored. nothing to do, i remember i like to be naked, so i clothed down a little bit (from my pajamas) i put my dick under the pillow and started to hump it, after a while i would feel some pleasure. and my dick would contract. it was kinda good. No cum left my penis. I masturbated whenever i could, 2-3 tiems a day it depends. it felt realy great. Too bad i had no girl playmates (or had a few but played only sometimes).
    sometiems later i dont remember when, somewhere between 9-12 not sure.. i had my first cum. On the other hand this was onl a few droplets and i felt also some tension inside (something around prostate). it was somewhat unpleasurable. Since then i had to hide my masturbation attempts, i masturbated less, i was also frustrated. Would have been good if i would have had some mates, girlfriends. Now i recall i fantasized a lot. There was no available porn movies or such, i never watched porn before this. I imagined what would be the sound if i fuck the pussy of a girl, and actually when i watched a porn movie later it was quite the same (at least the wet kind of pussy).
    I was outcast in school ever synce :\

  10. Reply PussyLover Nov 14,2013 2:21 pm

    The first time I masturbated:
    I was in the bathroom washing my pussy with a shower head after peeing. Suddenly the water pressure became so fast and I felt so good…REALLY GOOD MMMM

  11. Reply gothgirl20 May 22,2015 2:44 am

    I was 19 when I first discovered masturbating I remember sitting in bed reading a romance vampire novel and I was reading a sex I remember feeling wetness start to form between my legs and my nipples were getting hard I slid my panties off spread my legs and began to reread the sex scene over I started rubbing my clit and I felt my pussy getting wetter and wetter I started rubbing faster and faster until I had an orgasm.

  12. Reply Lindsey May 29,2015 5:14 pm

    My first time was when I was watching a rated r movie when I was 8. I had broke my leg so I couldent do anything all summer, but I had a hand and a very very dirty mind. So my mom would put me in the bed with her so she could get me if I needed something and I would wait for her to go to sleep and then I would turn on the tv to like Disney or some discovery channel shows and I would imagine this huge cock going in my tight pussy so I rubbed my clit and rubbed and I had a orgasm. I then was going though my moms dresser and found a vibrator, so when i figured out how to work it I would go in my own room and wait for mom to go to sleep in her room. I used to take the vibrator and I shoved it in as far as it could go in my little pussy and would put it on full blast. I remember for the first time that day I had my first wet pussy and a orgasm with cum. 😉 so now at my age of 15 I rub my clit and sometimes I use an electric toothbrush to get off it fells so good to have an orgasmi can’t wait to get fucked and have a cock in my shaved wet pussy;)if you have ideas how to get off let me know.

  13. Reply sexy girl Sep 28,2015 4:18 am

    My first mastrubation was when I was 14 and I was watching mlp since I was into that and I thought about one of them touching me and I did and I basically do it all the time

  14. Reply Stamps69 Oct 25,2015 1:37 pm

    Your day will cum

  15. Reply Zara Nov 4,2015 7:47 am

    I don’t know if this really counts but when I was about 9 I would get this feeling, ( I didn’t know it then but it was horny) and I figured out that I like to hump my larger teddies. So one day I told my neighbors about it and they joined in. I knew we were doing something bad so I closed the door and wrote a note on it saying- ‘rude class’ – no swearing though.
    I have no idea what my mum thought we were doing ? I wonder if she still remembers ?

  16. Reply wannafeelucum Apr 21,2016 5:45 am

    Thanks for those wonderfully descriptive experiences. Very much a turn on.

  17. Reply Karhunen Juho May 7,2016 9:29 pm

    The first time I masturbated I was 11. It was actually kinda horrifying, I was in a shower and I had this “weird and horny” feeling so I started to use my penis. (I was also thinking some of my earlier love’s in the same time) and I was kinda scared ’cause it started feeling so good, but it was also somehow a really natural feeling so I kept going. Then I stopped, looked down and saw how huge amounts of “white stuff” was coming out of my penis. XD It just kept coming and I was soo confused, (this was my first masturbating AND first orgasm in the same time, so you have no idea how weird it was for me) I also started feeling really dizzy. I immeadiately took my towel and went to my room, were I realised that no more of that “white stuff” was coming but the area slightly above my penis started feeling incredibly painful.
    So that was actually my first time masturbation, and yup, not as fun as it could’ve been ‘:D

  18. Reply NEED COCK 24/7 May 9,2016 9:08 pm

    The first time I masturbated I was about 20. I had my first sexual experience right before that. I couldn’t stop cumming, from the moment we started foreplay, through him fingering me, playing with my clit, licking me, touching me and finally making love to him. I came over and over, so much I at first thought it wasn’t natural to cum so much. So, by the time I masturbated the first time, I knew what an orgasm and cumming was. I slowly played with my tits, rubbed my clit and began fingering myself. It was incredible!

  19. Reply Kay-Fuck-me-Daddy Feb 18,2017 12:24 pm

    The first time i masturbated i must have been around 7-8. I came home and saw my mother watching a movie and it had an r-rated scene. I think it was called mr.brooks or something i heard moaning sounds and being the curious kid i was i peeped from the steps where i could see the tv and saw a couple getting it on. I started to feel this tingly feeling in the tip of my stomach and spread to my privated( i later learnt that feeling is being horny) so i went upstairs into my grans room because it was the one furthest from the steps incase my sister came home( we share a room) and started humping the pillows trying to imitate the scenebi witnesses it took some time before it started to feel good but i stopped when i felt like i was going to pee. I did this for the next few weeks when ever i had the chance. One day i was in the room i shared with my sister when i started to feel the tingly feeling again(horny) only this time i could not ignore it so while my sister was in the room listening to muaic and doing homework i went in mu grans room. I was too afraid to hump the pillow incase i made noise and my sister caught me but u was desperate and searched the room to find anything i could to fub my self to find some relief. I took a thicker platic hanger which was used to habg my hrans winter coats. I pushed it under my skirt and into my underwear while i rubbed it back andforth vigourously what against what i later learnt was my clit. I hid between the curtains incase someone came in i could turn face the window and pretend to be looking outside. I continued for a while as the tingly feeling increased i think i was so into it i didnt stop when i felt like peeing i continued and then an amazing feeling hit me and after left me feeling happy but drained i pushed the hanger under the bed and went to the bathroom to wipe myself (i thought i peed myself becausebi was wet). I tried to do it again a few days later thinking that if i rubbed my magic part while i peed a little i would get the feeling again. It didnt work for a while but it felt good. I felt the morebi peed while applying pressure to my privtes the better i would feel i had a teddy bear collection i would rap one in a towel or steal a diaper frome my little brother rap it push it in my underwear and hump it either by sitting on it or rubbing myself in the side of a door while gripping the handles for support when i got close i would start to lose control of my movement and in turn it wouldnt feel as good so i would pee myself in an attempt to feel that magic feeling again however i fell short for a while (although it did feel good) until i later snuck online on my mums phone and watched a video where i saw a girl touch herself and once again curiousity won and i tried it unsuccessfully the first time but by the second i came and i have been masturbating constantly since then always eger to try somthing new( like rubbing off with my curtains open or in in my back yard when i am home alone, to porn , while reading stories like this , sexting, to pictures , in the same room i share with my sister while shes asleep in the back seat of our car while someone is driving or butt naked while my sister has geusts over its such a turn on knowing you are doing it while there is a possiblity of getting caught) argggh typing this has made me so horny im not sure when in the middle my left hand snuck its way into my underwear, but now all i wish is that i could suck on a cock before its rammed into my arse hard and fast while i rub my clit and finger muself fo orgasm… Bye i gotta go finish off before my sister comes looking for me….

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