Because I believe that masturbation is a celebration of myself and womanhood, I always fantasize about other women when I masturbate. I have so many great ways of doing it that I couldn’t write them all in one sitting. My absolute favorite is the ben wa balls. It lasts a long time and rocking back and forth or humping on the floor or bed is so stimulating for me. While the ben wa balls are inserted inside my vagina, I play with my clit. It’s usually with my right index finger, but sometimes I pinch it.