I come on this website all the time and it gets me so wet. I stroke my clit but I can’t orgasm. I keep going and I get wet but eventually it gets to be to much and I can’t touch it anymore without it hurting.
Have any of you got any advice for me?
I come on this website all the time and it gets me so wet. I stroke my clit but I can’t orgasm. I keep going and I get wet but eventually it gets to be to much and I can’t touch it anymore without it hurting.
Have any of you got any advice for me?
Get some skin between it and your fingers, spreads it evenly over the nerves instead of just one spot.
That made me orgasm so bad…
Do not ovr think it. Some of the best orgasm’s are just in he moment.
Hi, I don’t have a clitoris of my own, so I might not be the best person to advise you on the problem, but it won’t hurt trying:
1. Don’t focus on an orgasm too much – try to relax and enjoy the excitment for what it is. If you are trying too hard, you’ll only get frustrated. By all means take your time.
2. Spread your attention to other zones. You have inner and outer lips of your vulva, you have breasts, nipples, ears, thights and the whole rest of your body. Explore yourself and you are bound to find many interesting sensations. It will help you get aroused without putting strain on your clitoris.
3. Try different kinds of clitoral stimulation – different strokes for different people as they say. You can use straight strokes from different sides or circular ones, you can press gently on the clitoris instead of rubbing it, you can also massage the area around the clitoris to stimulate it indirectly. There are limitless variations to try out.
Have fun and don’t worry too much.
thx it really helped i got my first orgasm im 12
Wow OP. i didnt know anyone else that was in the same exact situation as me. So far i have no luck. I feel like im at the plateau stage and i get super wet. But i cant orgasm. I’ll keep trying tho! I really want to feel what its like to orgasm.
What I do- I lay on my stomach and start rubbing my pussy over my panties. This helps to get me wet, and tease me a little. As I get more aroused, I roll on my back and pull my panties down, and run my fingers slowly up and down my pussy lips. Then I gently spread them, rubbing the inside of my lips. I then slide a finger deep inside me to lubricate my finger, pull it out, then massage in circles around my clit. I then get my dildo and rub it softly up and down the inside of my lips, sticking the tip of it inside me, then going back up to my clit. Next I start rubbing my nipples and pinching them. (if you really enjoy nipple stimulation like I do, try getting some hair clips and putting them on your nipples so both hands are free.) next I slowly shove the dildo inside my pussy, going deeper and deeper until it’s all the way in me. Then, I put my index finger and my middle finger on my lips directly left and right of my clit, then I take turns pushing down on each side. I work up a steady speed, and then I turn my vibrator on. I grab it with my free hand and move it in fast circles while I’m massaging and pressing down on my lips that are right next to my clit. This takes my orgasm to a whole new level, and afterwards my pussy is throbbing and wet with cum. Its amazing, and it’s not direct clitoral stimulation. Just remember, the longer you tease yourself, the better orgasm you’ll have 😉 I’m horny now, I’m going to go do this!
If you have an electric toothbrush, try lubricating yourself with a little KY jelly or Vaseline or even baby oil, then turn the toothbrush on and use the flat part on the back of the brush (the part without the bristles!) To tease your clit. Turn it on and then gently touch the vibrating brush back to your clit, and then take it off. You can also lightly tap it on your clit or vaginal lips, being sure to keep it short and take it off, let the pressure build and slowly your clit will enlarge and get harder. You should be wet by now, and you can use that wetness to rub the toothbrush in little circles around your clit area, keeping the brush from spending too long on the most sensitive parts. If you keep pressing the brush and tapping lightly on the clit, making sure to rub it in a circular or back and forth fashion, always stop before it goes too far. Get yourself closer and closer to cumming, then, when you can’t stand to take it off your pulsating, hard as a rock clit, leave the brush on it until you explode in ecstasy with the most mind numbing orgasm you will ever have! Don’t rush it, I have even timed it out, maybe while watching t.v. or reading about other sex or masturbation fantasizes and not letting myself cum until I have no choice but to finish. Let me know if this works for you, you can also use a bullet vibrator (order online). Hope it helps you!
When you feel that you can’t take it anymore, keep up the same exact stimulation (if necessary use a toy or a boyfriend) WHILE breathing very slowly & very deeply… in for 5 counts, out for five counts. Breathe deep into your diaphragm on the in breath, and try to empty your lungs on the out breath. Concentrate deeply on your breathing.
I had the same problem until i tried this:
If your bath has a shower hose, take the shower head off. This way the pressure will be a lot higher, stimulating you faster.Lie on your back in the bath and open your legs in a diamond shape. Even better, elevate your legs. This way your pussy is open and ready to go. put the hose close to your clit, turn on the water and you’ll immediately feel amazing.
Hope this helps!
Oh my God, thanks ~~~, that is incredible advice. 🙂 and unknown girl, you sure didn’t waste any time, did you? Lol