Sorry to kill the buzz I’m sure many of you get from reading these beautifully dirty posts… I know I get wet reading them! P:
But I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been flirty and dirty with each other, and lately we’ve tried experimenting with mild bondage. We switch up D/s, since we have a thing about gender equality…. and it’s my turn next to tie him up and have my way with him.
My problem is, I don’t know what to do to him once he’s tied up! I want to try new things to really turn him on, and most of the things I can think of we’re already tried before, or he’s not ready for. He says he doesn’t mind a little pain, so there’s that. I’ve thought of oral, but there are… complications with that.
Help me, ladies…. I want to make him rock hard.
Put on sexy lengerie for him. Strip off ur clothes until u r in ur bra and underwear(preferably a thong…that always turns on my bf). Get on top of him and start kissing him, his lips, then go to the neck, and keep going for his chest and nipples. Some guys like it when u suck their nipples in a gentle way. Try that. Kiss his back. Touch him all over. If u see that he is loving it go onto his dick. Caress it first, then grab it and start masturbating him a little. Once it’s completely up I think u should go for the oral. Guys love it. At least mine does. It’s not that bad as u think. Before i tried it i always thought i would never do that. But once u do it, it’s like watever. It doesn’t have a bad taste or anything. Anyway, suck it as deep as u can take it. The deeper the better. Suck for a while and then masturbate. Then again, suck and masturbate. As u suck, keep holding his dick and jacking him off. Ur guy will go crazy…trust me.
And when u guys r at the point when he wants to get it in, get on top of him and tease him. Get his dick and tease ur clit and ur vagina. Put it in a little and then take it out. do this a couple of times and he’ll be begging u to put it in all the way. Good Luck 🙂
If he’s tied on the bed why not tease a little? After slowly stripping off your clothes, move on top of him and gently grind your pussy against his bare boy. Maybe even openly touch yourself and moan to get him in the mood. There’s a lot you can do for this, all it takes is a little imagination ;3
Try tickling him a little with a feather or something really soft. If your hair is long enough, try brushing it against him. My favorite thing to do is blindfold my man after I tie him up. That way he doesn’t know where the next touch will be, or how hard or soft.
Chocolate body paint can be a lot of fun, it goes on cool and then you get to lick it up. A feather tickler or your hair would also probably be a neat sensation. I haven’t tried it in my bedroom, but a lot of my guy friends swear by ice. They say that it feels great against their hot skin, and they even like it when their girlfriends put an ice cube in their mouths for a blow job. If he like pain try your nails and teeth. I hope that this ends up being a great experience for you
The problem is, when people hear the term bondage, they typically think pain. But the thing with bondage is that it can mean many things. I recently dove into the world of bondage about 5 years ago, and it has been very rewarding. Pain bondage comes from a darker place, so thats probably not what you and your boyfriend are into. 🙂 that being said, you guys would probably thoroughly enjoy restrictive bondage. That means, in plain terms, tie up and tease. Easy way to jump into a sexy time, set up a “scene”. Act as if your boyfriend is your hostage. Tie his hands above his head or behind his back. Wear something sexy to get his mind racing. once he sees you, blindfold him. Once you have him in place, make sure you give him step by step orders. “No smiling.” “Stick your tongue out.” Once tongue is out, tell him to lick…Make him lick a part of you: nipple, ass, clit, neck, whatever. He will probably moan. Pull whatever it is youre making him lick away, and command, “no speaking.” Once his tongue is out again, make him lick a different part. “good boy.” Gently put your hand on his cock, make him realize you see how hard he is. At this point, point out to him you did not give him permission to get hard, and he did not even ask nicely. “do not let out one drop of pre cum without asking permission.” Hes going to thrust into your gently rubbing hand, so make sure to pull away, and make him beg. Making a proud man beg will take him out of his element, and the blindfold will assist that process. “beg me to touch you.” He’ll resist. Bend down and lick the pre cum that will be developing. Pull away. He’ll start to beg, probably just saying please, but make him address you with a title; mistress, your highness, etc. lick once more. “please, mistress, touch me.” Ask him if he wants to fuck you. He’ll say yes. Have a lit candle ready, and quickly (so as to not drop too much wax over same spot to cause pain) drop a few drops of wax onto his chest. Stop. Tell him to beg. Use your finger to touch yourself. Make him open his mouth. Make him taste your wet finger that was just in you. “suck.” He’ll beg. Make him slowly enter you. Now tell him to fuck you until you cum, and he is forbidden until you do. You’ll want him to see you as you both approach orgasm, but make him keep it on. Make him ask for permission when you see hes about to, and tell him to let it out after him begging twice or three times. 🙂 the release will be unbelievable.
OMG Emily! you know *exactly* how to get us guys going, that sounds amazing….I wish you had me tied up with you right now 🙂 It’s alway me that’s been the one in control but I’d be willing to give in to you completely!
If you give Emily’s suggestions a go it’ll be incredible for your guy and I guarantee he’ll want to return the favour and do whatever you want to get off like you haven’t together before. It’ll help inspire him to lift his game, which will be better for you too!
Emily, am I allowed to get hard now? 😉
Oh dogboy, you learn so easily. You’d be easy to train. But I’m assuming you already were, so probably not as ready to train as stated, but I’m sure the training process would be very interesting! 😉
try sucking him i am 15 and my boyfriend loves it its an ok taste if i can do it you can plus yours will probably have a smaller dick then my boyfriends so it not to bad the deeper in the better good luck you can do it;)