Right well I have found a little trick for getting a bit more in the mood before getting to the important bit and it only dawned on me the other day that when you do it alone you miss out on all that gorgeous kissing as there is no one to kiss. So I now begin by closing my eyes and kissing the back of my hand but imagining its who ever my fantacy is. I know my hand can not kiss me back but thats where my mind does that bit for me. Then I imagine them taking me by the hand and leading me up stairs and then I begin the rest. Its just a good way to get into the right mood. Well we all have our little foyables dont we.