Here is another suggestion for masterbating, or, rubbing the clit. Sometimes, when men rub it or flick it, they always do it in a up and down motion. Sometimes, this ends up being over stimulating, and sometimes even painful. If this is the case, try rubbing it from side to side or circling it with the tip of your finger. This can be a very good sensation. Also, don’t be afraid to tell your partner if something doesn’t feel good. After all, it is YOUR clit!