I have been coming to this website since I was a teen, I actually learned to masturbate from all these posts. I learned how to rub my little clitty until I cum, and to rub my juices all over my nipples and roll and pinch them until I’m even wetter. I always got wet from reading all your lovely comments and rubbed myself to your words. Now I’m 20 but still a virgin, I’m definitely straight but I could see myself having a little fun with a woman. I’m also pretty sure I’m into d/s and am a sub. I have always fantasized about an (or a few) older women showing me the ropes. Teaching me how to use a vibrator (I’ve never had one!), fucking me with a strap on and teaching me how to be a slut and please a man 🙂
As a male, I have had to discover for myself all the intersting parts of a woman’s body (tough job, but somebody has to do it….) and might I suggest that apart from stimulating your clit in the way you know how to, try using a small “bullet” vibrator on your clit (and nipples too). They are not expensive and most are very quiet so you can use it discreetly.
Since you are a virgin you may not know this, but even during penetrative sex your clit still needs stimulation and I am happy for my lady to use a bullet on her clit whilst I am performing – I don’t feel insulted nor less of a man to know that she needs that extra!
Your next move could be to go in search of your g-spot; prop yourself up in bed, and part your legs but closes your heels together.
In other words, like frogs legs.
This opens up your pussy nicely, and your heels give you something to prop a mirror on – although you may need a cushion as well.
When you have inspected fully, just try playing with your bits and finding out how to give yourself most pleasure.
Pay particular attention to your clit: the tip is especially sensitive, but it often matters which side you rub, too.
Now, open really wide and go in search of your g-spot.
[An area of controversy here. ALMOST all women achieve intense orgasms via g-spot stimulation, but there are some for whom it does very little. Hope that won’t be you.]
Feel along the front wall of your vagina, inside you, for a roughened area of skin about 1-2 inches in.
Everywhere else will be smooth, and if you are at all aroused it should be a little plump, too.
The plumpness is due to the fact that is a spongy tissue similar to a penis, except that is does not engorge with blood but fills with a fluid upon arousal.
Stimulation of the area really fills the sponge with fluid and can result in ejaculation during orgasm, much to your delight!
It is NOT urine, although it does share the same exit duct. It is colourless, not yellow and has been shown not to contain any urine; so don’t worry, you won’t pee yourself!
Good luck and do please tell us all how you get on.
Ron.