1. Defining great sex is individual and relative. It varies from person to person. Therefore, there is no such thing as a "perfect lover" who can jump into bed with anyone and give them an unbelievable night of unparalleled sexual pleasure. These kind of super lovers are a figment of someone's imagination.

2. A great lover isn’t someone who always does it right, has a gigantic penis, is always in the mood, can raise an erection on demand, can maintain an erection for 5 hours straight, and has the endurance of a marathon champion.

3. A great lover is someone who is attentive, responsive, creative, and communicative.

4. A great lover makes each lovemaking experience special and memorable.

5. A great lover makes their partner feel sexy, loved, and desired, and makes sure they are satisfied every single time.

6. A great male lover isn’t dependent upon only his penis to pleasure his partner. His penis is just one weapon in his sexual arsenal.

7. Great lovers do not allow themselves to fall into a predictive pattern of lovemaking.

8. Great lovers have an open and curious attitude toward sex. They are always willing to try something new or learn something new about sex.

9. Great lovers possess the intention, desire, and know-how to always keep the flames of passion alive.

10. We can learn to thoroughly pleasure our partners to a degree that most people think exists only in fantasy. It takes some experimentation, some patience, a lot of communication, and a lot of practice. The secret is to learn how to make love to YOUR PARTNER! Great sex is individual, remember? Being a great lover is all about learning how to love YOUR PARTNER the way they want to be loved.

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