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1: Safety
Cums First
Hopefully you already trust the one your with but it's wise to:
Use a condom whenever you engage in anal sex. You should also never
go from anus to mouth, or anus to vagina, without washing carefully
(and changing condoms) in between.
2: Don't
skimp on the lube.
The anus has no natural lubrication, so you'll need to use plenty
of lubricant. Avoid lubricants that contain analgestitics, pain
is your friend here and numbing the area can be dangerous.
3: Communication
Is Key
Encourage your partner to take deep breaths and communicate his
or her feelings aloud because this is a two way street.
4: Start
Small
You might want to try incorporating anal toy play into your love
life before jumping to anal intercourse. Of course the best sex
toy of all is your fingers!
5: If It
Hurts Stop
Pain is the bodies way of telling us that something is not right
and it's something we should all listen to. If you are the one receiving
anal stimulation make sure you tell your partner if it hurts. Take
a break and maybe try again.
6: Proceed
With Caution
Once you are ready to try anal sex, slow things down and take it
easy. This is not a race and the experience will be much more enjoyable
if you do.
7: Setting
The Pace
Always allow the partner who is receiving the anal to set the depth
and pace. See 5
8: Positions,
Camera, Action
According to Clitical members the favorite position for anal sex
is doggie style.
9: Stimulating
Times
Don't forget to stimulate other areas of the body while participating
in anal sex. A little clitoral stimulation can go a long way to
making the experience more satisfying for both partners.
10: It's
okay to stop
If things don't feel right it's okay to stop, take a break and start
again. This is supposed to be fun after all!
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