Ever since I can remember, I’ve used pretty much the same position while pleasuring myself. When I was a teenager I used to think I was odd — that it was a strange position, that I was probably freaky, and that the vast majority of women do it lying on their backs or something. (Now ...

We have always had an electric toothbrush. About a year ago, it dawned on me that the little vibrating head would really get me off. I like to use it because it’s convenient (unlike getting in the bathtub to use the massaging shower head), and I can orgasm in five seconds if I want to. ...

My clitoris is small and extra-sensitive — to the point of discomfort occasionally, so it’s not a major area of pleasure for me. Direct contact with my clitoris often tickles or is just plain annoying. Sometimes lightly rubbing the hood, or the area directly above the hood, is very stimulating. My nipples, on the other ...

Here’s another technique women might like to try. I recently found that if you fill a long balloon with water and freeze it you will have a toy that will play for a long time and when your finished you can refreeze it till you need it again. The sensation of the cold melting inside ...