I’m 19 and a uni student. I’ve been brought up to believe that “sex” and all that is supposed to be a bad thing. My mum saw me masturbating once when I was young and didn’t know what I was doing, and she flipped on me.
I play with myself regularly, in secret, and I’ve always wondered what it would feel like to be completely naked in front of another woman and have her do things to me that I’d never imagine. I’m single, a virgin, and never been touched. I’ve never orgamsed either. What do you think?
All good sex starts in the mind and you were on the right track with reading erotica, but you need to get more personal than that. As you are a virgin, you may not have had many experiences to re-live or relate to, but I’m sure that you have some horny fantasies in your head!
Imagine them to be real and how you would like to be taken – rape-fantasy, uncle/young girl, doctor/patient – use your imagination. As for the implementation, might I suggest that when you finger your g-spot you also put your thumb firmly on your clit and clamp fingers and thumb together, then pump your hand back and forth, stimulating both clit and g-spot simultaneously whilst all the time pursuing that fantasy – live it in your head as realistically as possible!
Do please report back, I’d love to know how you got on……
Ron.
xxx
P.S. I also have a self-examination task for you if you are unsure of how to find your g-spot or any other aspect of your pussy, together with a masturbation exercise involving beads and baby oil that should sort out your orgasms for you!
Ron, I’ve never found my g-spot before. I also don’t have beads or baby oil
I’m a guy your story has my throbbing if you like girls awesome but I want to tell you inwould love for you to play with your self in front of me your post has me throbbing I love for women to watch me
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