To begin our new series, where each week we will be spotlighting some of our favorite sexuality blogs from across the four corners of the world wide web, we asked Dizzy from http://noveltiestoymeetsgirl.com/ to take a few minutes out of her busy schedule testing and reviewing all things sex toy and novelty wise to answer a few questions and explain a little more about her blog:
Q: Tell us a little about yourself, Dizzy?
My tag line sums it up pretty well: Middle age married woman in middle America, discovering the wonderful world of sex toys and blogging about it.
I’m 38 and have been with my husband about 16 years (married for 6). I’m a nature geek and aspiring sex geek. I’m child-free by choice and I love my two cats. I’m sort of a no nonsense kind of gal and my honesty sometimes gets me in trouble.
Q: What inspired you to start your blog, http://noveltiestoymeetsgirl.com/?
I had been suffering from anorgasmia for many years, due to meditations I take. For a long time I just lived with it. I had given up on trying to change it because I didn’t think anything would help. My libido was nonexistent and my relationship with my husband was suffering. I finally got fed up and started looking for something… anything that could help me get my sexual functioning back. My first stop on that journey was experimenting with sex toys. And what I found was that with the help of vibrators, I could almost reliably have orgasms again.
It was still really difficult sometimes to reach orgasm, even with the vibrators but still… this was an improvement and when something can give you your sexual functioning back, you get really excited about it. During my research into sex toys I had discovered many great blogs and I thought: That’s how I want to channel this new energy and excitement I have about my reawakened sexuality. And so, here I am with this blog, telling the whole world about my sex life and reviewing sex toys… something I never saw myself doing.
Q: Who are some of your own favorite bloggers and why?
Epiphora is great because her writing style is so unique and I love her commitment to never sugarcoating reviews.
Dangerous Lilly’s blog is a wealth of information and I’ve used it as a reference several times. I learned a lot about sex toy material safety from her blog.
Q: If you could have sex with anyone in the world, who would it be and why?
Honestly, I don’t have any desire to have sex with anyone other than my husband. That might be a boring answer but it’s the truth. About 10 years ago we thought we would try swinging and had sex with several other couples but eventually, we just decided that we really only wanted each other and our relationship has remained closed ever since. If we both truly wanted to get back into swinging again I’d be open to it but we’re both just totally happy focusing on each other.
Q: If you found yourself marooned on a dessert island what is the one toy you could not be without and why?
If I could only take one, it would be the We-Vibe Salsa. It’s the toy that allowed me to have orgasms again and for that, I will always love it. The vibrations are strong and rumbly and using it is the easiest way for me to reach orgasm.
If I could sneak one more toy onto the island, it would be the Key Comet G Wand. I love that thing because for the first time in my life, I knew where my G spot was and how it was supposed to feel to stimulate it. I haven’t been able to have a pure G spot orgasm with just the Comet, yet. But when I use it and the Salsa together I have orgasms like I’ve never felt before. I just can’t recommend those two toys enough.
You can read more of Dizzy’s work on her website (http://noveltiestoymeetsgirl.com/), follow her on Twitter (https://twitter.com/dizzygirl812), or catch up with on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/toymeetsgirl)
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